Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital
room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His
bed was next to the room's only window.
The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back.
The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their
homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had
been on vacation.
Every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window
could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the
things he could see outside the window.
The man in the other bed began to live for those one-hour
periods where his world would be broadened
and enlivened by all the activity and
color of the world outside.
The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks
and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats.
Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every
color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.
As the man by the window described all this in exquisite
detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the
picturesque scene.
One warm afternoon the man by the window described a
parade passing by. Although the other
man couldn't hear the band - he could see it. In his mind's eye as the
gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words. Days and weeks passed.
One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for
their baths only to find the lifeless
body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and
called the hospital attendants to take
the body away.
As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if
he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and
after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone. Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on
one elbow to take his first look at the
real world outside.
He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside
the bed. It faced a blank wall. The man
asked the nurse what could have compelled
his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window.
The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not
even see the wall.
She said, "Perhaps he just wanted to encourage
you."
Epilogue:
"There is tremendous happiness in making others
happy, despite our own situations" "Shared grief is half the sorrow,
but happiness when shared, is doubled" "If you want to feel rich,
just count all the things you have that money can't buy"
"Today is a gift, that's why it is called the
present."
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