50 Sexy Turn Ons

I've found these 50 Sexy Turn Ons submitted by users and compiled by love editors.  Whoaa, you can try one of these to completely turn on your partner, not just your partner, you too can really get some techniques here to be a great turn on.  This article is also intented for those who are not so romantic (sa mga bato ba). Just try, you'll lose nothing after all.

50 Sexy Turn Ons

What things get you going?

1.She will appear around the house semi-naked, like getting dinner and only wear an apron  wear dungarees, but no shirt or bra. -Hamish Muir

2. During lovemaking it turns me on when my girl looks me in the eye and tells me she loves me. -Miss Liz

3.He lightly runs his hands up and down my back, then gently kisses up my spine. -Megan

4.Kisses me softly on my breasts and on my inner thighs! It's just so wonderful! -Diane Elmore

5.While kissing me, he gently bites my bottom lip ~Ohhhh Yeah! -B.

6.He calls me at work in the middle of the day, unexpectedly, says "I Love You" and hangs up the phone. I absolutely enjoy this, it gets me every time and I can't wait to get home and hold him in my arms. -Joanna

7. When he whispers to me, or when he cuddles or touches me without me doing it first. -Erin

8. He uses his sensual lips and puts them on every spot of my body. -Shelly

9. Sucking on my toes! -Christina

10.He will suck my fingertips-one by one as we're watching a movie. We usually don't make it through the movie!!!! -Holly

11.He will walk up behind me and surprise me by whispering softly in my ear how much he loves me, and then he will gently kiss my neck. -Aimee

12.When she tells me that she wants to make love with me. -Steve Fremgen

13.There is definitely one spot on my neck that makes me absolutely crazy. It is the height of sensuality and ecstasy. It creates want, need, and desire. -Alicia

14.One of my turn-ons is when my boyfriend runs one finger down the back of my neck. Talk about chills. Oo!!! =) -Tasia

15.The way he comes up behind me and pulls me into him in a very close embrace. I can feel his whole body pressing against me, and feel his breath on the nape of my neck and his lips. Mmmmm that's always enough to send me over the edge. -Leigh

16.With his hands he goes down on either side of my spine and sends chills down to my toenails. It drives me crazy. -Kathy

17. Passionate kiss on the lips. -Jay Trinidad

18.When we are at a party, or somewhere where there are a lot of people, and he whispers sexy nothings into my ear! -Nicole

19.Biting on my ear gently and breathing heavily with moaning sounds. -Popeye

20.When we are kissing, which is a lot! He nibbles my ears and barely breaths my name in my ear as if we were having sex. -Trace'

21.When I am naked and he kisses me down my back, bottom, and the backs of my legs. -Tracy

22.He gives me a full body massage and then kisses all over my body. -Anonymous

23.When he presses me against the wall and looks into my eyes, and then gently holds the back of my neck and kisses me. -Molly

24.The one thing my partner does that really turns me on would have to be how he whispers dirty things in my ear when we are having foreplay. -Jennifer

25.Kissing the insides of my knees. -Christi

26. Nibbles - everywhere!!! -Debby

27. All my boyfriend has to do is kiss me. My boyfriend always has his eyes closed when we kiss, but occasionally we keep our eyes open and stare into each other's eyes while we're kissing. We've been together for almost four years and he can still get me ready to go by just kissing me. I think that's more romantic than anything I can think of. -Michele

28. It has to be the soft teasing kisses. It makes me sigh just thinking of them. -Mary

29. My boyfriend will walk up to me at the strangest times and tell me what he would like to do to me if we were alone. He loves to tell me these thing in places like church! -Marissa

30. The one thing that always gets me going is when he bites me on the back of the neck, not as soft as a little nibble but hard enough to leave a mark. I don't know what it is about that, but it just gets my juices flowing. -Charma Lay

31. A wonderful kiss that leaves me breathless and wanting more, much more! -Dorothy

32. His gentle touches when we are making love. -Bonie

33.The thing that make me wild is when my honey starts at my lips and kisses his way to my tummy! I love it when he kisses my tummy so soft and sensually. He licks an area around my belly button then blows on it, it gives me goose bumps all through my body. I LOVE IT! -Lindsay

34. He turns me on when he pays every single bit of his attention to me and looks me in the eyes. I know he really does love me, it's a meeting of our souls. -Beth

35. When he looks at me with desire in his eyes. His pupils enlarge so much I could drown in them and his face gets so intense like he can barely hold back from jumping on me and making love to me right there. -D K's Dryad

36. Silk robe and boxers. -Angel

37.I love it when she brushes her breasts over my body... that drives me wild. -Glenn

38. When she watches me lovingly while I watch TV. -Chuck

39. He puts his arm around my back and holds my face while he kisses me. -Vyunda

40.What really turns me on is when my boyfriend runs his tongue across my back and kisses my back to wake me up in the morning. -Maddy

41.How as he is touching me, hugging me, kissing me, making love to me - he is totally into it. He's not doing it JUST to make me happy, he's doing it because he really enjoys my body and being with me. What a turn-on!!! -Doryntony

42. When she removes her hair band, she leans back her head slightly and shakes her hair out so it is straight. All I can say is wow. It is a great turn on because it looks so quintessentially feminine, and she often does it in places and situations where I cannot react to it (public places, in company, etc.). That must be one of the reasons it such a turn on, I have to wait to react. -Gabriel K.

43.Teasing, in any way shape or form. -Cole

44.He always rubs my feet after I get out of the bath and that is the most intimate thing you could do for your lover. For us it always leads to really great sex! -Butterfly6960107

45.She drives me crazy by gently kissing and blowing on my back. It sends chills up and down my spine. -L

46.Surprise me by not wearing underwear when we go out. Being creative in finding ways to let me know adds to the enjoyment. -Nick

47.My husbands' sheer enjoyment of our intimacy always makes me happy, comfortable and turns me on! The fact that he is always "up" (pun intended!) for lovemaking and is so comfortable in expressing his pleasure is a driving force in our sexual relationship. -Liss

48.My man looks into my eyes and says the most incredible things to me while lovemaking. It's like he can get into my mind and bring me to new heights using only his words and his eyes -P.J.

49.Oh My Gosh! I have to say that for me, the one thing that turns me on the most is when he talks to me. Says erotic things, like, lay back and relax honey, or you like that don't you baby. I find that it makes me get into the mood all the more, and the passion heightens as well. -Jen

50.Just being around her. I love to watch her dress. -Jack

Little ways to say I love you

These are from Jennifer Good.  She says showing your affection and emotion can be a simple and effortless act when you incorporate these little ways to say, "I love you!"

1.  Kiss the inside of your partner's hand

2.  Leave a love note for your partner to find.

3.  Blow a kiss.

4. Mark designated "Loving Days" on your calendar.

5. Arrange for take-out and have an indoor picnic.

6. Feed each other.

7.  Wash your partner's car and leave post-it notes with loving messages for them to find.

8. Frame a favorite picture of the two of you and place it next to your bed.

9. Share a bottle of wine or champagne.

10. Send loving messages on your partner's pager or cell phone.

11. Leave a romantic message on your partner's answering machine.

12. Slow dance.

13. Hold hands.

14. Go star-gazing together.

15.Dedicate a love song on the radio.

16. Cook a meal together.

17.Watch T.V. together in the glow of candlelight.

18. Meet your partner for lunch.

19. Plan a surprise date.

      20. Kiss passionately... often.

Why guys like girls

Here (DAW) are a few reasons why guys like girls:

I'm a gurl, so I cannot really justify these reasons, ask the boy next to u, to confirm...

1. They will always smell good even if it's just shampoo

2. The way their heads always find the right spot on our shoulder

3. How cute they look when they sleep

4. The ease in which they fit into our arms

5. The way they kiss you and all of a sudden everything is right in the world

6. How cute they are when they eat

7. The way they take hours to get dressed but in the end it makes it all worth while

8. Because they are always warm even when it's minus 30 outside

9. The way they look good no matter what they wear

10. The way they fish for compliments even though you both know that you
think she's the most beautiful thing on this earth

11. How cute they are when they argue

12. The way her hand always finds yours

13. The way they smile

14. The way you feel when you see their name on the call ID after you just had a big fight

15. The way she says "lets not fight anymore" even though you know that
an hour later....

16. The way they kiss when you do something nice for them

17. The way they kiss you when you say "I love you"

18. Actually ... just the way they kiss you...

19. The way they fall into your arms when they cry

20. Then the way they apologize for crying over something that silly

21. The way they hit you and expect it to hurt

22. Then the way they apologize when it does hurt. (Even though we don't admit it)!

23. The way they say "I miss you"

24. The way you miss them

25. The way their tears make you want to change the world so that it doesn't hurt her anymore..... Yet regardless if you love them, hate them, wish they would die or know that you would die without them ... it matters not. Because once in your life, whatever they were to the world they become everything to you. When you look them in the eyes, traveling to the depths of their souls and you say a million things without trace of a sound, you know that your own life is inevitable consumed within the rhythmic beatings of her very heart.

We love them for a million reasons,

No paper would do it justice.

It is a thing not of the mind but of the heart.

The Thing I value most

A young man learns what's most important in life from the guy next door.   

It had been some time since Jack had seen the old man. College, girls, career, and life itself got in the way. In fact, Jack moved clear across the country in pursuit of his dreams. There, in the rush of his busy life, Jack had little time to think about the past and often no time to spend with his wife and son. He was working on his future, and nothing could stop him.   

Over the phone, his mother told him, "Mr. Belser died last night. The funeral is Wednesday." Memories flashed through his mind like an old newsreel as he sat quietly remembering his childhood days. 

"Jack, did you hear me?"  "Oh, sorry, Mom. Yes, I heard you. It's been so long since I thought of him. I'm sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago," Jack said.   

"Well, he didn't forget you. Every time I saw him he'd ask how you were doing. He'd reminisce about the many days you spent over 'his side of the fence' as he put it," Mom told him.  "I loved that old house he lived in," Jack said.    "You know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make sure you had a man's influence in your life," she said   "He's the one who taught me carpentry," he said. "I wouldn't be in this business if it weren't for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me things he thought were important...Mom, I'll be there for the funeral," Jack said.   

As busy as he was, he kept his word. Jack caught the next flight to his hometown. Mr. Belser's funeral was small and uneventful. He had no children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away.   

The night before he had to return home, Jack and his Mom stopped by to see the old house next door one more time.   

Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment. It was like crossing over into another dimension, a leap through space and time The house was exactly as he remembered. Every step held memories. Every picture, every piece of furniture....Jack stopped suddenly. 

"What's wrong, Jack?" his Mom asked.   "The box is gone," he said  "What box?" Mom asked.  

"There was a small gold box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I must have asked him a thousand times what was inside. All he'd ever tell me was  'the thing I value most ,'" Jack said.   

It was gone. Everything about the house was exactly how Jack remembered it, except for the box. He figured someone from the Belser family had taken it. 

"Now I'll never know what was so valuable to him," Jack said. "I better get some sleep. I have an early flight home, Mom."   

It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died Returning home from work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. "Signature required on a package. No one at home. Please stop by the main post office within the next three days," the note read. 

Early the next day Jack retrieved the package. The small box was old and looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago. The handwriting was difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention. "Mr. Harold Belser" it read. Jack took the box out to his car and ripped open the package. There inside was the gold box and an envelope. Jack's hands shook as he read the note inside.   

"Upon my death, please forward this box and its contents to Jack Bennett. It's the thing I valued most in my life." A small key was taped to the letter. His heart racing, as tears filling his eyes, Jack carefully unlocked the box. There inside he found a beautiful gold pocket watch.  

Running his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing, he unlatched the cover. Inside he found these words engraved:   

"Jack, Thanks for your time! -Harold Belser."   

"The thing he valued most was...my time"   

Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office and cleared his appointments for the next two days. "Why?" Janet, his assistant asked.  

"I need some time to spend with my son," he said.    "Oh, by the way, Janet, thanks for your time!"   

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away," 

Girl Fact, Guy Fact

WHEN A GIRL MISSES  U -                                                                                                                                                                                                              

she's afraid to see how your new girl looks,  

she's dreading the fact that you're not hers any more

When u break a girls heart,

she still feels it when bumping heads 3 years later

When a girl just stares deep into your eyes,

she's HOPING that your hers and only hers ( it shows how much she cares: eyes never lie)

When a girl is quiet,

millions of things are running through her mind.

When a girl is not arguing,

she is thinking deeply.

When a girl looks at you with eyes full of questions,
she is wondering how long you will be around.

When a girl answers, "I'm fine, "

after a few seconds, she is not at all fine.

When a girl stares at you,

she is wondering why you are so wonderful.

When a girl lays her head on your chest,
she is wishing for you to be hers forever.

When a girl calls you everyday,

she is seeking for your attention.

When a girl wants to see you everyday,
she wants to be pampered.

When a girl says, "I'll love you forever, "
she means it.

When a girl says that she can't live without you,
she has made up her mind that you are her future.

When a girl says, "I miss you, "

no one in this world can miss you more than that

GUY FACTS

When a guy calls u

he wants to be with you

When a guy is quiet,

He's listening to you...

When a guy is not arguing,

He realizes he's wrong

When a guy says, "I'm fine, "

after a few minutes, he means it

When a guy stares at you,

he wishes you would care about him and wonders if you do?

When you're laying your head on a guy's chest

he has the world

When a guy calls you everyday

he is in love

When a (good) guy say he loves you

he means it

When a guy says he can't live without you
he's with you till your done

When a guy says, "I miss you, "

he misses you more than you could have ever missed him or anything else

50 Facts (daw) of women

1. Women love to shop. It is the one area of the world where they feel like they’re actually in control.

2. Women especially love a bargain. The question of “need” is irrelevant, so don’t bother pointing it out. Anything on sale is fair game.

3. Women never have anything to wear. Don’t question the racks of clothes in the closet; you “just don’t understand”.

4. Women need to cry. And they won’t do it alone unless they know you can hear them.

5. Women will always ask questions that have no right answer, in an effort to trap you into feeling guilty.

6. Women love to talk. Silence intimidates them and they feel a need to fill it, even if they have nothing to say.

7. Women need to feel like there are people worse off than they are. That’s why soap operas and Oprah Winfrey-type shows are so successful.

8. Women don’t need sex as often as men do. This is because sex is more physical for men and more emotional for women. Just knowing that the man wants to have sex with them fulfills the emotional need.

9. Women hate bugs. Even the strong-willed ones need a man around when there’s a spider or a wasp involved.

10. Women can’t keep secrets. They eat away at them from the inside. And they don’t view it as being untrustworthy, providing they only tell two or three people.

11. Women always go to public restrooms in groups. It gives them a chance to gossip.

12. Women can’t refuse to answer a ringing phone, no matter what she’s doing. It might be the lottery calling.

13. Women never understand why men love toys. Men understand that they wouldn’t need toys if women had an “on/off” switch.

14. Women think all beer is the same.

15. Women keep three different shampoos and two different conditioners in the shower. After a woman showers, the bathroom will smell like a tropical rain forest.

16. Women don’t understand the appeal of sports. Men seek entertainment that allows them to escape reality. Women seek entertainment that reminds them of how horrible things could be.

17. If a man goes on a seven-day trip, he’ll pack five days worth of clothes and will wear some things twice; if a woman goes on a seven-day trip she’ll pack 21 outfits because she doesn’t know what she’ll feel like wearing each day.

18. Women brush their hair before bed.

19. Watch a woman eat an ice cream cone and you’ll have a pretty good idea about how she’ll be in bed.

20. Women are paid less than men, except for one field: Modeling.

21. Women are never wrong. Apologizing is the man’s responsibility, “It’s there in the Bible”. Hmmm, who was it that gave Adam the apple?

22. Women do not know anything about cars. “Oil- stick, oil doesn’t stick?”

23. Women have better restrooms. They get the nice chairs and red carpet. Men just get a large bowl to share.

24. The average number of items in a typical woman’s bathroom is 437. A man would not be able to identify most of these items.

25. Women love cats. Men say they love cats, but when women aren’t looking, men kick cats.

26. Women love to talk on the phone. A woman can visit her girlfriend for two weeks, and upon returning home, she will call the same friend and they will talk for three hours.

27. A woman will dress up to go shopping, water the plants, empty the garbage, answer the phone, read a book, or get the mail.

28. Women will drive miles out of their way to avoid the possibility of getting lost using a shortcut.

29. Women don’t try as hard as men during sex; after all, they don’t fall asleep afterwards.

30. Women do NOT want an honest answer to the question, ‘How do I look?’

31. PMS stands for: Permissible Man-Slaughter. (Or at least men think it means that. PMS also stands for Preposterous Mood Swings and Punish My Spouse.

32. Women are emotional and a little possesive, period.

33. Women are insecure about their weight, butt, and breast sizes.

34. Women will make three right-hand turns to avoid making one left-hand turn.

35. “Oh, nothing,” has an entirely different meaning in woman-language than it does in man-language.

36. Lewis Carroll’s Caterpillar had nothing on women.

37. Women cannot use a map without turning the map to correspond to the direction that they are heading.

38. All women are overweight by definition; don’t agree with them about it. Women always have 5 pounds to lose, but don’t bring this up unless they really have 5 pounds to gain.

39. If it is not Valentines day and you see a man in a flower shop, you can probably start up a conversation by asking, “What did you do?”

40. Only women understand the reason for “guest towels” and the “good china”.

41. Women want equal rights, but you rarely hear them clamoring to be let into the draft to cover the responsibilities that go with those rights. All women seek equality with men until it comes to sharing the closet, taking out the trash, and picking up the check.

42. Origin of the word “woman” is: woo-man.

43. If a man ticks off a woman she will often respond by getting a fuzzy toilet cover which warms their rear, but makes it impossible for the lid to stay up thus it constantly gets peed on by the guys. (which gets them in more trouble)

44. Women never check to see if the lid is up. They seem to prefer taking a flying butt leap towards the bowl and then chewing men out because they “left the seat up” instead of taking two seconds and lowering it themselves.

45. Women can get out of speeding tickets by pouting. This will get men arrested.

46. Women don’t really care about a sense of humor in a guy despite claims to the contrary. You don’t see women trampling over Tom Cruise to get to Gilbert Gottfried, do you?

47. Women fake orgasm because men fake foreplay.

48. It’s okay for women to dance with each other and not be gay. You don’t see straight men dancing together.

49. Women will spend hours dressing up to go out, and then they’ll go out and spend more time checking out other women. Men can never catch women checking out other men; women will always catch men checking out other women.

50. The most embarrassing thing for women is to find another woman wearing the same dress at a formal party. You don’t hear men say, “Oh-my-GOD, there’s another man wearing a black tux, get me outta here!”

Reason why women find it hard to find their men

Just read it somewhere, funny but true, lol

The nice men are ugly.
The handsome men are not nice.
The handsome and nice men are gay.
The handsome, nice and heterosexual men are married.
The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men, have no money.
The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men with money think we are only after their money.
The handsome men without money are after our money.
The handsome men, who are not so nice and somewhat heterosexual, don't think we are beautiful enough.
The men who think we are beautiful, that are heterosexual, somewhat nice and have money, are cowards.
The men who are somewhat handsome, somewhat nice and have some money (and thank God are heterosexual), are shy and NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!!!!
The men who never make the first move, automatically lose interest in us when we take the initiative. 

NOW .... WHO IN THE HELL UNDERSTANDS MEN?

7 Signs you may have found Mr. & Ms. Right

While browsing yahoo, this article caught my attention.  And indeed, this is somewhat true.  Check if you and your valentine is compatible.   Happy Valentine Everyone!

By Krista Bloom, Ph.D. LCSW

Special to Yahoo! Personals

In happy, successful relationships, both partners seem to be on the same page and to really enjoy life together. The more you have in common with the other person on the things that count, the more successful you are likely to be in the relationship. I call this the "compatibility factor."

Here are seven forms of compatibility to look for in your valentine.

1. Personality Compatibility. What's inside the person is the most important factor, because that is going to be there always. Decide what personality types you are most attracted to. Many people enjoy a great sense of humor, for example. Others look for someone with certain spiritual values.

Find someone you really like and can have fun with.   Think about how the two of you will get along down the road. Take your time to get to know someone's true nature, because people often put their best foot forward at first.

2. Chemistry Compatibility. You have to click in the physical department. Being mismatched in this area can lead to resentments and have a long-term effect on your love life together. For example, if one of you believes in PDA (Public Display of Affection) and the other is adamantly against it, that may cause serious problems over time.

3. Communication Compatibility. Are you and your valentine on the same page in terms of communication? See if your conversations flow, and if they are enjoyable for both of you. When you're in love, you may think you have the best conversations, when really one of you is doing all the talking.

While you are getting to know each other, keep conversations real and fun.

Avoid the temptation to talk about past relationships  it can be a downer and you don't want to turn your date into a support group. Focus on what you enjoy.

4. Friends and Family Compatibility. This comes later, usually after you have been dating for a few months. Do you get along with one another's friends and family, or are there clashes and conflict? If you don't get along with your valentine's inner circle, then the relationship may not work, unless you love the person enough to grin and bear it.

This does not mean that if your valentine's friends and family are not exactly your cup of tea you should dump him or her. Some you will like and others not. Consider how close they live to you and how often you will need to see them before deciding this is a deal breaker.

5. Health and Nutrition Compatibility. Are you a health food nut or a junk food junkie? Are you a speed-walker or a channel surfer? See if your health-related lifestyles match or not. Although this may seem silly, later in life health becomes more of an issue for people.

6. Financial Compatibility. Money is one of the things couples fight about most often.

If you share similar financial goals and means, this can be very helpful.  Don't be afraid to ask questions about how the person likes to handle their money, especially as you get to know each other well.

One question you can ask is what your valentine thinks is the best way to manage income and bills. If you agree, then great. If you need to learn more about finances, take a course and read books and articles on Yahoo! Finance to get your financial health on track.

7. Lifestyle Compatibility. Having common interests can really help in a relationship. If you share a passion for something, you can have even more fun together in your free time. You can also expose each other to new interests, which can be exciting. However, if you absolutely hate sports and he has season tickets to every game in town, this may cause a lifestyle clash.

What if you're not compatible?

Sometimes, there are so many clashes in so many areas that the relationship begins to suffer. What can you do if you and your valentine are not compatible? You can:

1. Take an inventory of your relationship. You can look more in depth into life's domains -- green flags that bring you together or red flags that pull you apart.

2. Accept things as they are. The main idea is to look for workability, not perfection. We have to let some things go or we'll never be happy in any relationship. Enjoy and appreciate each other for who you are!

3. Change and ask for change. If you are both willing to make changes, be specific and set realistic goals about what you are willing to do and how things could improve between you. Keep the lines of communication open.

It is much more effective to choose a compatible partner in the initial stages of dating than it is to "fix" something that is "broken" later. It's hard to move on, especially if you are already in love and committed. In any relationship, you will need to work on things.

Enjoy the journey; I hope that this will give you a start to know if you have indeed found your Mr. or Ms. Right for you this Valentine's Day!