This would give you guides on how to control your emotions towards your better-half, friend,
officemates and all the people around you.......
The 4 rules of practicing "ugaling langit-ugaling
kaaya-aya"..
Ang naunang
magalit ang may karapatang magalit...
Pag naunahan ka ng galit nya...tihimik ka na lng muna...
Walang taong
nag-aaway mag-isa...
Pag di kayo
sumagot or pumatol..titigil din daw ang taong nakikipag away sa inyo...
Ang taong galit, "Bingi"
if someone is angry.. di daw pinakikinggan so don’t try to explain and
fight back coz di ka nya iintinlihin dahil wala syang naririnig kundi ing sarili nya...
Ang taong galit..abnoy...
according sa pastor, biblical daw ito...coz The Lord said
when He was crucified..."Father,
patawarin mo sila dahil hindi nila alam ang kanilang ginagawa"...modern
term for these kind of people are abnoys... =)
so you better not get angry para wag ka matawag na
abnoy...hehehe
You should also
know and realize that the persons who make your day bad are jewels...because you need them for you to mature...hangat
andyan daw sila at kinaiinisan mo..ibig
sabihin immature ka pa din...
God will not take away those people.. it’s for you to take away your bad feelings
towards them...
you'll know na
mature ka na pag dumating yung time na di ka na naiinis sa mga taong ito because
you have learned to accept them and to have patience with them...
